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Find a low-key, nonthreatening way to approach him. Somehow I always felt that he did it because of something I did. Always come lastAnd itsbreaking My heartthat I dont know what to do Financially Im not able to move And my son doesnt want to Any advice? I relate so much with this comment its exhausting. So currently on the couch drinking a beer, eating leftovers from a 3 days ago (which is humorous because he could have at LEAST heated that up for me) and then all the sudden the dog jumps up at me. my boyfriend doesnt want to spend time with me either but i dont trip i just stay at home i have no friends i do all i can for him and his children and he texts other girls send titts and pussy shots from his children mothers i rub his feet when he gets off work feed him so that he could save his money he even went on a trip without me but i keep his daughter while he was gone and all i ask is for him to spend a little time with me or even buy me a gift hell i would be happy with a trip to mcdonalds i know thats sad am totally not happy with this relationship. Or stay here and break up. My guy is the same way. I guess in the end we need to decide if hes worth all this heartache. Ive had a talk with him a few times that I feel like his mom, Im always cleaning and cooking and have to tell him what needs to be done. As well as this, I makes me question if he is speaking to other females behind my back again. I talked to him early in the day (he was out of town). Because then they they think they can control and manipulate us. please give me an advice. He used to do things for me but it seems like he doesnt do anything. Thank you so much for what you said! But he never tells me how he feels when I ask. But there were also a couple of red flags like he wouldnt make concrete plans with me ahead of time, he would just tell me Saturday afternoon that he was ready for me to come over if I wanted. so I do have to take that into account, and when his parents go away for the summer its wayyyy easier to spend more time with him, he becomes so laid back. Is your boyfriend an emotionally unavailable man? You should never settle. But since last year, he stopped doing that. We continue dating but not once did he ever bring up talking about all that he mentioned. I keep trying to tell myself this is just a bad patch until I finish school and get a full-time job again- now that hes finally got a new job and should be happy. I just requested patience. Sounds exactly like me and my ex. You can change how you respond to your boyfriend and everything else in your life. Its just so sad because we have already talked about these no showing of efforts issue and up until this day it is still the same. Not only that sexual favors have been one sided for a long time now. I reslect to my culture. I am feeling, like my expectations may be too high. These tips actually worked. I cant tell you what to do, I can tell you what it feels like to stay and feel the harshness of hurtful words for years at a time. Hes now begging for me back , saying hes going to change. He needs help but isnt able to take responsibility or accountability or doesnt care enough about maintaining the relationship I guess to do anything to make it work. DESAFIO SINTONIA DA PROSPERIDADE: https://hotm.art/bMGvF75N My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months. We have been together for almost a year. Its really hurtful to live with, and it really makes me feel unappreciated and un loved. I love my girlfriend but I never know what to say to her. Often the dog doesnt get walked for a few hours in the morning because I have to get myself and the kids ready before I can take the dog out when really he could just get up and do it.He never wants to come on walks with us. I just want to feel special!! I finally thought things were getting so much better for both of us. Then there was the hangovers. He wanted to hang out everyday which at first I though was strange but I started to so after while it was weird for both of us to not be around each other every day. Its about dealing with regret, coping with guilt, and healing shame. He doesnt know how to express himself anymore. I used to be patient but recently Ive been having anger issues and he knows how to handle my mood accordingly. He just plays it off as nothing serious unless Im breaking down crying. I love him and i plan on marrying him but i dont know how to fix the lack of effort without fighting like we always do when i ask him to put in more effort. Its been almost two years and weve been inseparable ever since but lately it seems like something has changed. it was boring and dull. Maybe what you see as your boyfriends lack of effort is simply a normal part of being in a solid, comfortable relationship. Especially because hes not an introverted person, he has a lot of friends he goes out with often to play board games or to bars. The one time I did ask him to pick me up at the train, he forgot. If youre not walking out the door, you are telling him that his behavior is acceptable. We havent been fighting everyday. I know hes not a bad person maybe he doesnt feel the same about me anymore, or still loves me but is not in love with me anymore. Im dating this guy for 3 years now. Then quarantine hit. I visit him at work a couple nights a week and bring him dinner as he works second shift. but is a single text or a goodmorning too much to ask? Since Christmas hes stopped seeing as much, no nice texts, less phone calls he says its not me & its because hes busy with work but even now on a Friday night hes at his place & im at mine. It became so bad that I almost broke up with him. Of all the relationships you have, I was the best one, I did everything for you and this is how you pay me back. Im 47, and he is 57 now, and we have been together for 10 years now and have lived together for 8 years. I used to blame myself but I took DBT and have actually tried employing the skills I learned. He may not be the person for you. I thought after he quit his job he would have no excuse, but now he just puts even more time into video games. Im sorry but what hes doing is horrible, really bad boyfriend in my eyes. The first date was half a year into our relationship at an Italian restaurant. I bought so much things to do for his birthday . I do want to believe its because of all his family issues that all this is happening but I am well known for making excuses for boyfriends when things arent right. Ive put my career aside to help him build his business. Has done things for me, in my own home. But he feels that I would have a better chance getting a job were he lives then him getting a Job where I live but thats not the point. But yeah, we talk more and sometimes I struggle to text back too since I work full time now! About 2 weeks or so after, I voiced my concerns again about his lack of effort in making quality time. His mom, so sweet and caring, once scolded me because I refused to go on a trip with him. All I think of him is selfish & inconsiderate of everyones feelings but his own. Every time I have to make the first move conversation and ask what to do, He has no idea. I know he loves me but weve talked multiple times about how I dont feel loved, wanted, or appreciated, and he just sits there and doesnt change. 1. We spent four weekends together at his place and virtually every day together on a mutual project for a month. Its comforting knowing others face the same issues. We did this at least once a week. I wish I had answers for you girl, but Im very much in the same boat, hope we can figure something out, hang in there! Yet never once hes let me in. I too feel like Im not asking too much- but even if Im clear in communicating what I want and need, my boyfriend rarely makes the effort. Despite me working on being explicitly clear- he still hasnt been willing or able to meet my needs. When he wants to intimate with me i have told him severl times i do not trust you,because i couldnt forget that incident. Of course you want him to make an effort to wine and dine Dont turn a blind eye on things that are sign showing and you are not happy for them. Im so sorry this happened to you. At this point we fight so much and afterwards Im always the one to try to settle things because he just cant comprehend what he said really hurts. I came across a guy who seemed familiar but had a different name. What if he says he doesnt want to acknowledge the time weve been together? I asked him to go to a Valentines Day dance and we went. But If they are not- I think you have to consider moving on. He tells me that he loves me very much and I know he does. I would put makeup on and wait hours for him to finish his video games, only for him to tell me hes sorry he got caught up, but hes tired and doesnt have time. i jst think hes all abt himself and idk wht do. So hes stopped making an effort because it doesnt matter. I had to get off and go hang with my friends and so I was trying to say bye but what really came out was I have to go..I love you..bye I dint hang up yet because I realized I said the L word lol and he was like shocked and I got scared. Except I work from home, so I have to watch him do nothing all day and work. I have been doing some self-evaluation to determine the role I played in the relationship. We usually see each other every weekend but he normally works 6 days a week, 10 hours a day so we actually spend less than 24 hours a week with each other. If you have never met in person then its more than enough reason to break up with him. I got up today and did mine in bed, he continued browsing the web on his phone which is all he does now when we are together. When Your Husband Still Works With His Ex Affair Partner. hes always busy at work. I did not even have to think about going this is what people do for each other. Dont end up like me. What I got from this is that it is OK for a male to not understand what he wants in a relationship, but a female should bow down down no matter what. He has been going through a lot, with an unsupportive family, a broken ankle, financial troubles, depressionbut I have been steady and I have been supportiveI have loved him so well. I was in a similar situation when I was in college. feels as though what they say doesn't matter (and they've stopped talking altogether), then look within. He doesnt ever say I love you first, he doesnt hold my hand, the most hell ever do on his own is give me a kiss here and there and theyre quick pecks. When he was drinking, he was attentive, affectionate, and fun. Does your boyfriend still care? He makes money but spends his money on the wrong thing. I completely understand that, but I dont hear him ever compliment me or anything that I do. Im planning to attend grad school this coming August and I havent manage to get all my stuff in yet because Im busy with my kiddos, house chores and helping him with work. And when I would send him flirty or intimate texts in the beginning of this whole thing, he would either not respond at all or sound uncomfortable in his response. Then rock bottom hits, I ended up having to go to urgent care bc of an allergic reaction to a flu shot I had gotten. Wow I can relate so much to this. He had PTSD, bi polar disorder and anxiety. I am struggling with my current relationship, I love him, but I have the thoughts of him being a narcissist, player or using meThanks. I said I didnt think I could be in a relationship with him anymore because I was tired of being the one always doing the work and making an effort. I am in q very similar situation. God bless! Hi Jessica, Sweetie this man is never going to love you the way you want him too.He may love you the only way he knows how and its not a healthy kind of love by your comments. You will end up hating yourself. I dont quite think he is a narcissist, because he does have a heart and I have seen him show compassion; however he is very proud and self-absorbed. It feels awful when you feel like you care about him more than he does about you. Text messages are very slow to respond, I dont text him ten times a day either. It breaks my heart not talking to him and hearing about his day but I know this was for the best. After that I had to go home cause it was starting to get dark. When we talked about moving in together I did it all. Dont know full dets but I know you deserve to be happy. Hes been consistent so far. This makes me Am I the problem here? thats about it. He doesnt check up on me to see if Im okay or if I get home okay, and it just hurts me that he never wants to spend time with me when were out drinking with our friends? If youre not happy then leave him, its that simple. However, somewhere after the 4-5 month mark, he got another job and started working two jobs. The worst of all, Hes so Unforgiven, if we have misunderstanding ill sent a text of apology, after that ill try to call him, but, he wont pickup on several occasions. through text, he claims to love me and all that, but in person, i feel like he does the bare minimum. I was the one who then initiated contact and although he has apologised he isnt making effort but says he cares for me and doesnt want to hurt me, Im starting to get frustrated about his lack of action still and dont know what to do! I COME HOME AT 6 PM AND THE TRASH IS STILL THERE. Maybe not right now but sooner than 5 years from now, of that I am certain. Just stop allowing that guy to keep thrusting a dagger in your heart. The point is if a man cares enough about his future wife and son would he want them to be safe and help them move to become a family.. Kiki, I do not like what you said about being the one who travels back and forth. But hes not different. He told me about his insecurity that I seem to have a plan and moving forward with my life and career, while hes not and he fears the future ahead. Anyways, he has told me before that he plans to make me his girlfriend, we have great conversations, hes very flirty but the problem is he doesnt text me often or try to call or set up a date. This is NOT the man I fell in love with that I move in with 5.5 years ago. I wish he understood how confused and unloved this makes me feel. This is literally me. Hed say something really mean, watch my cry and if I asked to talk about it, Hed tell me why do we have to always talk about it or why cant you just drop it and not bring it up my favorite was Im not apologizing because Im not sorry, you just like making a big deal over nothing one time I asked about marriage (he took me to the red wood Forrest and asked me to marry him 2 years prior to this comment) he told me hed never marry a b**ch. Any advice would be helpful to me. We are here Reach out. How come? Or, ask them for more details. I hope things get better. We both have made developments and decided to let go of our bad past. Good luck! I just feel like that is so little reassurance for what would be 7 years together, that we would have the possibility to then just maybe live together. But Ive just always felt like im not one of his priorities. I tried to get my best friend to take me (I cant drive) to his sisters baby shower so i could see him but i found out she no longer was friends with him and she hated that we were dating and regretted getting us together. I am very fortunate to be free from that. Youre still young and should take that same advice youd give your daughter. Which actually does NOT suck because I was married for 24 years and I dont miss having to make sure someone eats supper, has clean clothes, etc. He said he had not thought about it and was not feeling well that day, so would think about it when he felt better and let me know in a few days. If we cant COMMUNICATE with our guys needs to be worked on by both parties. .he is older than me 5 years older and I started dating him because I thought he was mature but every time we fought he puts me down telling me Im fat, Im disgusting, no one will ever want meabout a year ago I went through something where I needed all the support I could get and he left me and didnt have my back..10 years later we have no sex and its always in excuse as to why we are not having ithe continues to call me names and everytime I tell him my true feelings it seems like he dosent care, Ive asked him if he would like to try and start all over because I would still wanna be with him and he agrees and says yes and once again we keep going like through this cycle that never ends..I just wanna be happy at this point I dont know why he dosent try a little harder but Im tired. I say I never give advice, but this is one thing I want you to know: you have to build a life outside your relationship with your boyfriend. I am like at the I dont know what to do stage right now my boyfriend is not even home because I told him to just leave we got together super fast and since the beginning I noticed that he wasnt affectionate at all but I thought he might be shy but as time passed he still is non affectionate at all! I question why after knowing what he knows, he wont even try to talk to me. I just dont feel like a priority any more. On the other hand, maybe your boyfriends lack of effort means that he only calls you once a month or texts you once every two months. Im Im confused and at this point I almost miss being just friends because then he would try harder. He is the problem. The beginning of our relationship was heaven, as what most relationships are. For me personally, I feel like my boyfriend does not know how to go through a crisis together. When I first met him I didnt think I needed a relationship but now especially in this lockdown I feel a little empty and alone. It isnt fair. Im just confused if he really want me he should have no excuses in having time with me. Should I just leave and find someone that can give me those things? But its not ones job to fix me. Anniversaries, birthdays etc. Things started getting better and then crashed on the rocks. My boyfriend had proposed me to marry him on 3rd month dating.. then he was stressed up with his business he didnt know how to handle .. i started helping him and give him directions.. he was getting through in a good way ,though at times i had to push him as he haf started giving up.. but then he broke up with me while am at my work place .. it was terrible..but i couldnt let my personal issues interfere with my work i locked the door of my office and kept on working with tears.. three months later he comes back .. but again he hasnt mentioned he needs a favour .. but he kinda mentioned about something that i was helping him out with telated to his business.. i offered him help yet lol.., and the matter is going well on his favour and he has pulled off again.. bi communication.. am glad i had asked him once if he just came around cause he wanted favour.. he said he still have strong feelings for me.. but deep inside i know he is just using. I love my boyfriend very much but he is so difficult to understand in the morning you will text with much love and in the evening he will tell you I dont know how to love, you deserve someone better who can give you money among others . This person uses sarcasm to take me down a peg, even after I said that Im not here for that. Its hard to deal with, but Im trying to just tolerate it until the coronavirus is over, in hopes that things will go back to normal. He Wants You To Approach Him First. He will come around in my opinion. I dont want to push, I do want to give him space, but too much of that then leaves me feeling like I am not showing him my standards so then why should he value me. Letting Go of Someone You Loveis filled with comforting, practical ways to heal your heart. He talks but does not deliver. Would you like to come along? But refuses to do that for me. After that night i got my phone taken because my grades were awful (bc of home issues) so me and him didnt talk much but that did not stop me.I would sneak the phone and iPad all the time and talk to him still but then my mom found out about this boyfriend of mine (my sister is a snitch) and i told her that i liked him but i wasnt dating him. We were living together but decided to try living apart since we jumped into the relationship. Where Im at in my life, after 5 years, if Im not a fianc, Im gone. Which I know I do and Ive thought about sooooo much, but my problem is is that I actually cant imagine my life without him, hes been in it so deeply since we were 13/14 and I love him so much. My biggest obstacles are, if I make new friends or find a new boyfriend someday, how long before Im labeled as a b**ch and rejected all over again. Idk if hes extremely busy or whats happening but he doesnt communicate at all with me. Thank you for being here, and for being so honest about your relationship difficulties! Dont settle for this. Now I just want to be alone. Especially when fighting. He does have some medical issues, but seems to be taking care of most of them, he also says he does suffer from depression and I am wondering if this is what is happening. I would then open a honest discussion about how we both feel when I return. I been paying for everything(food,gas,food, weed). Its completely up to me to provide the conversation and topics, which is rather stressful for me 2 years in. What do I do? In the beginning, they go overboard to make us happy. How did I give him permission? I hope this gives you some courage, you deserve to be happy! SHE STILL HAD HER HARNOUS ON HER. But I genuinely hope this would be of help (to you and to anyone whos going through a similar scenario). His attitude stinks toohe laughs in my face when I get upset by this. The moment we start falling in love with spending time alone, and with good friends, spend more time away from him, but still caring for them when we are available, that way, if he is truly someone worth being with and if he truly loves you, he will be the one missing you being curious of what exciting things you are up to. I know for sure that he likes me as well. But anyway recently it just feels like hes not trying to be romantic or even putting much in, Ik our situation is very complicated and he is probably dealing with his dad still but I have to help my nana everyday and I still make time for him, send him cute messages like I made some welsh cakes I was thinking I could drop some off and give you a little peck as kind of a joke and he just replied with no dont do that. So, literally, he gives me a quick peck before he goes to work and at least TELLS me he loves me. I thinking breaking up with him is definitely a stretch, but Im tired of begging my boyfriend for some reasonable attention. I dont think what Im asking for is difficult to do that it would take months to see any results. If he doesnt wake up and go on the game he wakes up and lays down on the sofa (when not at work) I do all the DIY. First I asked him if we could level up our relationship through meeting his and my family. And youll likely receive the same treatment. I havent felt loved in so long and ever since we started doing long distance, I feel like Im always putting in effort to do a lot of small things for him just to cheer him up but he doesnt think about doing anything special for me. I dont understand why he wouldnt make you diner when you took out all the ingredients. Love your reply and I agree with it all Im struggling right now as Im conflicted with wht to do how long do you wait how long do you keep understanding he has issues he is dealing with but makes minimal effort with our relationship.. Im just sad angry and confused. , hopefully each day, I will start to become stronger, and maybe me and him could continue with our friendship as time passes. So we decided to give it a try. He stopped foreplay. At first, he was working, seeing his daughter, making me coffee in the morning, starting my car for me, doing dishes, and laundry and now ten months in, he lost his job, and I have no idea if hes looking for a job. We were together 8 months. Do you want to stay with your boyfriend, just the way he is right now? Paula an emotional rollercoaster is an emotional roller coaster. Hi girl, Im in the same situation right now. I didnt even realise I was expecting the bare minimum until it hit me while I was laying in bed after he hadnt messaged me all day because he was busy playing his game. Not material things, but being romantic on special occasions. We have an 18 year age gap. Yes leave him. After that he chatted me that hes sorry he didnt give the money and I said im not accepting money for sex. His temper and his childish attitude and how he has to be right all the time. When a partner is heavily distracted by other commitments, tasks, stress, and anxiety, they may find it too challenging to redirect their attentionand they may even be so wrapped up that your needs don't even register. As well BALANCE is a VERY hard thing for men I have learned. What he said was he passed out and decided to sleep at friends place because he was afraid of driving late. for example, yesterday, he gave me a box of chocolates only because his mom made him and i usually have to make the first moves, even if its something simple as reaching out to hold hands. everything stopped. No boyfriend in the world can fill the emptiness that only God can fill. but in the reality im not. Ask your boyfriend open-ended questions about how he thinks your relationship is going, and if theres anything you both can do to bring you closer together. Which was Im looking so bad I dont want neighbours to see me like this. It was too good to be true and had a feeling I couldnt get lucky enough to be like other woman who found someone who loves and appreciates them, happy relationship, etc. Rather call it quit now and learn to live without him as soon as possible because you are in a loveless relationship. I know that may seem shallow of me to care about social media that much, but its only because he posts every aspect of his life online and theres never anything about me? High on mine, low on his. Are you expecting more from your boyfriend than he can give? I have brough up some of the issues and he acts clueless and doesnt know what to do. He should be making an effort to see u, call u , and text you throughout the day. Anyway not sure what to do either but it helps to know Im not the only one. Especially if you have a SON!! He is not often visit to me. I get 2-3 texts a day and I have to call him every few days just to hear his voice. He also spends all is money on one of purchases like 600 pound shoes and then moans to borrow money while I foot the bill for car expenses etc.I feel like the only time he cuddles me is when he wants sex and if I have an excuse he immediately pulls away. I get it Im not a good gamer but I like the company. Please take some money you get from promotion and go to Counseling to help you. (Probably why she fell in love with another man) now its like he is determined for me to not become selfish. I cut out all those smiley-faced emoticons he avoided and texted one-word answers sometimes, just like he would. Since then hes filed for bankruptcy and the interest he used to take in my poetry appears to have disappeared. Dont let your wishes control your thoughts and feelings. And thats what messes with me a lotwhy doesnt he want to do the same for me. This makes me feel like he just needs me to help him with work. So I dropped them and only expected him to make an effort on anniversaries but still nothing. :'(. I encouraged him to ask for help through his cohort and luckily one of them came through and got him this great job at the investment firm he works at. Ive communicated everything and yet nothing. I dont feel that he supports me in my decisions on things. Hi Angela, Well Im no expert with relationships. Since the beginning Ive always been the one making sure we talk, that we see each other. he is such a mystery. He would always build my hopes up before we call and end up forgetting or when he calls, hes either that hes going to bed or do so while playing his games throughout the call and not pay attention even when i have something to share which hurt my feelings. Know your worth and dont settle for a man who doesnt act like hes got you pinned down, get a man who treats you like he cant get enough of you. He texts me every morning and night and we often text during the day. Those arent just low relationship expectations, theyre unhealthy patterns of behavior. ive already told him my feelings about this often. Its hard for me to let go and try when he is not trying enough and only notices the negative things. As he knows that everyone has me do everything for everyone. I am so sorry you are going through this. I had to call him! 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